Do you believe that God write our Love Story?
Yes I do believe in that, God will give us a better man, He will give us the best not the one who your dreaming of.
When I was a kid, I asked my Mom if someday I will get married, she said yes as long as you pray and God will give you. I asked God to give me a lifetime partner that I could talk too under the sun, who will love me unconditionally, who will accept who I am and for who I am not. I never ask God to give me a hunky handsome husband or super rich or anything material, I just asked someone who will love me and my family.
Of course, I also experience heartbreaks wala naman siguro tao na hindi na heart broken noh, but God is really good he really give us the best after all the heartaches.
Hubby is also not perfect we have petty quarrel, major arguments but that is normal and that make our relationship stronger, importante you must know how to handle the situation, just say sorry if you are wrong, and how to do make up after the quarrel.
How did God wrote my Love Story?
I used my single years thinking what I want do in my life, study, working, going out with family and friends.
Time come, when I realized that I need someone to be with me for a lifetime. Back of my mind dreaming of a prince charming that everyone dreams, but I have to face the reality that there is no perfect prince charming. I have to pray that God will give me a person that who will love me unconditionally. I keep on praying, I had several heart aches, I even questioned God, why?.
In 2006 He gave me Sherwin, of course it’s not easy to have a fairy tale love affair, we have been through a lot in our first year. But God is good He just let us experience the worst before the best come along.
In 2007 as we celebrate our first year anniversary in Tagaytay we come across the Tierra De Maria, we prayed that our relationship will last and to have a happy ending.
In 2008 I asked God if Sherwin is the one, please show me a sign and if puwede Sept 19,2009 ang wedding namin :-). Siyempre ang wedding sidedish lang yun he he he.
But guess what after our Palawan trip to celebrate Valentines and our early celebration of our Third year anniversary, we finally agreed to have our wedding this year. Bahala na daw ako sa date and all the details. Since I prayed for Sept 19,2009 lahat okay, I tried to change the date for Oct 18,2009 pero lahat hindi puwede even the church. So finally set for 9.19.09.
February 2010 when I learned that I am 4 weeks and 4 days pregnant, Oct 10,2010 when we become official parents to our Little Kulit.
And now 2014 we are going to celebrate our 8 years together and 5 years as a married couple. God still give us trials to make our relationship stronger and we thanked Him for keeping us together and in all his blessings.
I just want to share you this verse
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[b] 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
Let God write our Love story, just pray and have faith that He will give the best.